In Retrospect, This Seems Crazy

Imagine parents who perceive that the world is a dangerous place. They fear that their child could not only be physically harmed, but also emotionally injured. Out of an abundance of (misguided) caution and love, they create a protective case for their child.

The picture captures the flaw in this strategy; such a case leaves no room for the “protected” person to grow. They would be cut off from so many wonderful experiences… simply because of a (misguided) assumption they are not strong or resilient enough to handle a challenge or threat.

Here’s the thing: it’s generally not other people who put us in a cage. We do such things to ourselves.

Every time you think, “I’m not smart (or strong or tough or good-looking or talented) enough to do ____,” you put yourself in a cage.

And before you protest “I don’t do that,” consider this: you may have made such a decision so long ago that you don’t even remember locking a piece of you away. You may have spent the past, 10, 20 or 30 years hiding without even realizing that you are hiding.

In retrospect, this seems crazy. Wouldn’t it be better to take a chance, to take a few risks… on the off-hand chance that something wonderful might happen?

Bend Reality is about being a bit more expansive, more open to change and new experiences. We have another 75-minute community call coming up on next Wednesday, February 7. If you haven’t yet attended one of these Zoom sessions and you would like to join this one, please contact me and I’ll send you an invite.

With love and gratitude,

Bruce